PSA to Writers and Anyone W/ a Story to Tell #writingcommunity

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You are allowed to write whatever you want however you want.

Whether it be riddled with grammatical errors or not as long as you are not simply writing hate speech.  Tell the story that you are meant to tell.

I actually got in an argument this morning about writing with a woman that claimed if you do not know all the rules of grammar and writing you should not be a writer.

I was upset with this mindset because it is the same small-minded perfectionist view of things that scare so many away from telling their story.

Knowing techniques, growing your skill and learning proper grammar usage is important.  However, it does not trump storytelling.

Do not get so caught up in the idea that everything has to be perfect.  We can get so lost by the idea of perfect that we die having never shared our story.

Grammar is made to enhance writing and storytelling, not to destroy it.

Stop running around with your grammar hammer and smashing people over the head with it.

We all want to get better at writing, but my God someone is not stupid or a bad writer because they used your instead of you’re in a tweet or FB post.

This has happened to me so many times, and it happened in a writing group on FB where one person believed that if you made these mistakes you should not be allowed to write.

We all make mistakes no one is perfect and it is a social media platform, not a published medical journal.

Please Get over yourselves and keep writing ur own work.  Then tell me when that shit comes out because I would like to leave a review.

Keep writing, you are not stupid.  Your story has a purpose, tell it to the best of your ability.

19 thoughts on “PSA to Writers and Anyone W/ a Story to Tell #writingcommunity

  1. Word…No pun intended. You tell ’em!!

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  2. We all make mistake. No one is perfect. So we have no right to judge anyone whatsoever.

    We learn everyday. We learn as we make mistakes. I hope there would be lesser people who are so quick to judge after reading this post. 😊

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    1. Me too but more so I hope for anyone out there afraid to start writing because they dont believe they are good enough or smart enough that they will see they can start wherever they are and have the courage to begin telling their story

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      1. I hope they will all get to read this post and gather their courage to never give up 😊

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    1. Haha thanks Mark I’m not one that gets quick to Anger but man I felt it this morning. We need to lift each other

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      1. Wrong is wrong! I think you acted appropriately. The person still is in the land of the living, yes? I agree, part of our purpose in life is to lift each other up.

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      2. Haha as far as I know they got put in FB time out I think.


  3. Thanks Matt.
    I was just thinking about this today and came to the same conclusion.

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    1. Awesome great minds think alot about not having perfect grammar I suppose Haha that’s the saying, right?


  4. Anyone can learn all the grammar rules but to have the ability to pull a reader into another world or experience is something entirely different – that’s a writer.

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    1. Thank you for reading and commenting


  5. An irreverent side note: I have heard it from the lips of actual editors that I respect and otherwise trust that (and I know it’s unbelievable, but hear me out) that they LIKE to edit! (I know, right?) The point being that editors exist.

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    1. Absolutely they do and we should be happy to let them do their magnificent work on our magnificent work. lol, Thanks Guy


  6. This is so true Matt. I tend to be picky about grammar on my stuff, as you know (lol). But other’s work I always try to uplift and only give positive encouragement along with the, generally private, note for improvement worded nicely. I am not a grammer Nazi, I am a grammar fairy. Lol.

    Everyone out there has a story to tell. There is not a single person on God’s green earth from whom I cannot learn something. Nobody should be afraid to express their own feelings in written word and certainly should not be told they have no right to do so.

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    1. Thank you for reading and commenting.


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